Cope

The Tin Angel is a club in Philadelphia that measures about 12 feet wide by about I don’t know feet long.  (Not many).

It’s dark.  On Saturday is was smoky because Clarence likes him some smoke. 

We had a great dinner downstairs at Serrano first.

Then we had some of this. 

Some of that in a dark, smoky place after a great meal is just enough to remind you of who you used to be before you filled your brainpan up with carpool schedules and laundry and just enough to remind you of who you still are so that you can return home again with some real estate in your brainpan cleared out and marked with a big sign that says, “RESERVED FOR THINGS BEAUTIFUL AND MINE ALL MINE.”

Muddy Waters

One of the central themes of Antigone is the conflict between human law and divine law.

Antigone wants to bury her brother, but the king, Antigone’s uncle, has said that he can’t be buried because he’s an enemy of the state.  Divine law, contrary to the King’s law, requires that the brother (Polyneices) be buried. 

Antigone must decide whether to follow divine law or the law of the state.

Hence, dilemma.  Therefore, as so often occurs following a dilemma, tragedy ensues.

Spoiler alert:  She chooses divine law, ends up dead.  Boo hoo.  Actually, she flip flops a lot about why she’s really burying Polyneices, leaving us to wonder what she’s really up to here and who’s plight Antigone is really trying to draw attention to (hint:  teenage girl?  drawing attention to someone other than herself? )

In Poetics, Aristotle writes that a tragedy is meant to have universal and cosmic rather than individual significance.

The Founding Fathers weren’t idiots. They knew that this conflict between divine law and state law was an eternal and universal one.   And it wouldn’t only be emotional teenaged girls struggling with the decisions about whether to do what Zeus wants or Creon wants;  the stakes would often be much higher.    So our system of government removes for us the problem.  We don’t have face the kind of dilemma Antigone would face.  If we want to live here, and we don’t have to, we follow the law of the people.  Divine law is for people to handle in the privacy of their own homes and doesn’t figure into what happens in our courtrooms and schoolhouses and anywhere touched by taxpayer dollars and public trust.   

Know what happens when those waters get muddied?  People are sentenced to die by stoning outside one of Thebes’ seven gates.

Controlling the Uncontrollable

My youngest child just turned 7.  She has strong opinions about fashion and has developed a withering gaze that she can level at you when you say something she finds tiresome.  She likes math.  She can do jigsaw puzzles at lightning speed.  To her parents’ chagrin, she is discovering the joys of playground gossip. 

My oldest child recently turned 9.  He also likes math.  He plays the cello, but has to be nagged to practice.  He is on a swim team.  He is developing a bit of attitude, but is remorseful when reprimanded.  He has a terrific group of friends.  He rips the knees of pants at an alarming pace.  He just got a loft bed in his room and loves it.  His dad and I can’t lie with him at night to read with him.

We’re having a lot of capital W- Weather here in the Mid-Atlantic this winter.  I love dramatic weather events.  Even more than the actual weather events themselves, I love the anticipation of said weather events.  I am entirely addicted to the weather blogs – complete with wacky amateur meterologist characters freaking out about jet streams and precipitation quotients. 

I’ve become frustrated by the way my house looks.  I’m on a bit of a mental hamster wheel trying to figure out how I want it to look and what I’d (who’s kidding who, my husband has a) a much more refined aesthetic sense than I have and b) the skills to carry the work out) do to get it to look that way.

When nobody is looking, I’ve been throwing all manner of bits and pieces away, Happy Meal toys, playing cards flying solo, paper clips, unsharpened pencils, coffee mugs I don’t like, grubby looking dish towels.  The other day I filled a trashbag while standing in front of the kitchen junk drawer(s) and my desk. 

I’m toying with the idea of studying Buddhism.  I think there’s something oxymoronic about that statement. 

Possibly just moronic.